Blog about how to ease your child through your divorce. Give tips and advice on what not to do such as use your child as an ally or even as a peace maker. Give tips on how you can model a secure and healthy relationship with your ex by modeling better behavior and fostering a loving and supporting relationship between your child and your ex. Never say anything negative to your child about your ex no matter how tempting and encourage your child to talk to you about anything on his/her mind without becoming overly objective and staying neutral and helping them ease into their own solutions.