Blog about how to help an older sibling adjust. Give tips like making the older sibling an important part of the new baby's life and decisions. Make the older sibling help decorate, clean or choose colors from a chart for the baby's new room. Let them go shopping with you and have them be a helper at the baby shower if there is one. Ask them questions and allow them to ask questions too. When the baby comes, make certain to give praise and attention and also chores to help with the new baby.